“I have to say that looking at that right now, and I know this is just because of the experience of it. I know this is just because of my lived experience, but urgent comma read colon is less annoying than Highlight my Message. And way less annoying than putting my name like, tagging me in the fucking message, man. I mean, you could put you could put some critical info in a post in my chat where you tag me in it, and I will I will defy reading it or acknowledging it just because you did that.”